Three year old Development stage November 10, 2008
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Nicole is 3 years old and 1 month now. I was very amazed with the flow of her brain. I mean this doesn’t mean that she is extremely genious or I may say that for this generation, most of the toddlers ranging from age 3-6 years old are very talented and aggressive to learn. They are curious in everything. Asking anything that make them confused. And the best of this is they didn’t forget easily especially the moments that they consider interesting.
My daughter is very excited to go to school but since she is just turning two last month so i didn’t take her the opportunity to enroll her in school. but I am planning to enroll her for next school year because she will be on her four year old then. and for this summer i will send her to swimming lesson but it depends on her will. If she doesn’t like then I will not force her.
I am so excited with her growing up years. I bought new milk for her and she really likes the taste of Promil Kid, It taste like vanilla but sometimes she wants my milk, Bearbrand ahihi..indeed it taste good also despite of the inexpensive price. anyways, It is not the price that counts, its the content.
Last week, i thought I’m pregnant but I am disappointed because my menstruation comes. well, I know that there is time for everything and i believed that God will set the right time to have the things that I want.
Battuta mall November 9, 2008
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This was taken in Battuta mall. When we were still in Dubai. I just came from walk in apply in jebel ali there..but got job in Deira, near at our flat. hehe. but then go back at davao to stay for good. …and this time is really for good…ahihi…well, there’s a lot of pictures soon…
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A friend in need is a Friend in deed October 26, 2008
Posted by grincuddle in : Life , add a commentI am in a midst of crisis now but not as in totally drained. We still have our savings and we can still buy the food we want to eat especially for my daughter. i just can easily configure now whose my friend in need and a friend in deed. Lately, when we are in Dubai, my friend “#%$&^&” always contacts me, send me emails, chats and everything. then asking me to lend a money, since it is fine with me and there is still enough money then I let “HER” borrow it because I know she needs it urgently. But now, I have this knowledge that she has an extra money and I am asking just a little on it, she didn’t let me borrow it. Well, thats her opinion, I respect her. As of now, I learned from my mistakes and I believe I have to change it. I have to be wise and be wise, that will be my next character. It is good to be in a safe place always.
happy together! October 23, 2008
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I thought this is our last pics together, we are in fun city that time, spending quality time with my family. My husband is the one who took pictures, Taking picture in any angle. I am so happy that time. i really believed that God moves our lives, for that time all i know is that they will be leaving Dubai without my presence but I was shock that i had made a decision in going there. The time I had my passport, i am so happy that I can’t explain my thinking. I am so weird that time. ahahhaa..just remembering those days. I know that it is a selfish decision thinking that my visa was already processed and just waiting for the result. But nothing could make my daughter happy but to decide not to pursue my career without her. Leaving alone and away from your family is not as easy as that. I wondered how mother could do that but I understand them, it might be a finances reason in working away from your family. Well, for me it is a big sacrifice. and I could not dare that. that’s why for all OFW’s there, thumps up!
anyways, im glad that im home..happy together!
Glad we’re home! October 23, 2008
Posted by grincuddle in : Life , add a commentI just came from a three month ups and downs of my life. We travelled for eight hours from our home country just to have a peaceful life but sad to say, its been three month that my hubby and I wasted money and effort. Well, we had a nightmare life their in Dubai, ahihi…I made my mission in a half only, i got a good job, but the rest has no valued. My husband didn’t find a good job their and has a below minimum salary only. Everything needs to pay individually, “working visa”, in Dubai, if you have work everything goes well already. But its not, it depends on the employer if they have to provide you visa or the worst is you have to pay your own visa in a salary deduction. Most of the unskilled workers paid only for 1,500 derhams per month then the visa cost is 6,000 - 8,000 Dhs, and that is not fair! Each company should provide that because people are working for themselves and not for their company. And that is one of the reason why my husband decided to go back here and work to the vessel again as a seaman. And i think that is the best decision we ever made. Why should we live their and pay each day we lived their. it is so nice to live in our own country without thinking the visa and everything. The only thing we must do is to try the best thing in order for us to succeed.
I am really glad were back here and starts new, it is a refreshing thing to do! God made a purpose why such we experience this trial…
Being Faithful May 29, 2008
Posted by grincuddle in : Life , add a commentChoosing to be faithful is a decision. You may not always feel like it. It takes a lot of self-control in not being punitive, sensitivity to the feelings of others, empathy, good impulse control, and the willingness and skills to effectively ask, and even demand that your intimate partner fulfill your needs.
Good communication, negotiation, problem solving and conflict resolution skills are important in this process, as well as a lot of patience, which is needed in order to hang in there. It is definitely not easy. It is easier for many people find someone else.
Infidelity may start as an accident, a curiosity, or as a punishment. There is an addictive quality to it, which makes it progressively harder to stop.
Once it is discovered, infidelity hits with tremendous force. It decimates your partner’s self esteem, ruptures trust, threatens the kids, destabilizes the relationship and throws the future into question. It is like a death. It is the death of the relationship’s innocence, for it will be a long time before the two of you trust each other again.
Once it is admitted or discovered, infidelity generates tremendously powerful emotions in the betrayed partner. Emotions will likely include anger, rage, the desire for revenge, and sometimes homicidal and suicidal feelings. Nothing seems to wound more than being jilted for someone else.
The betrayed person frequently obsesses about what happened, unable to get haunting images and thoughts out of their head. They are likely to question their attractiveness and desirability. Their feeling of betrayal may be so strong that it never goes away. They are likely to feel bitterly resentful, and may plunge into deep
depression.
The betrayed partner my go so far as to have a revenge affair, in essence declaring that what’s good for the goose is good for the gander. There is seldom joy in a revenge affair, for it is not about sex or fun. It is about wounded pride, and wanting to hit their partner where it hurts.
K-Gold vessel April 26, 2008
Posted by grincuddle in : Life , add a commentpending……..extend……delay……..stop…..anchorage…..loading…..hay na lang. mao ni ang dialogue skong bana na makasuya usahay.
atat na atat ko na makauli sya. pero cge lng delay. lagotttttttttttttttttttttttttttt….grrrrrrrrrrrrr…hehehehe…
saba pjud kau dri oi. mupalit nlng kaya kog computer? pero unsaun mna nko na mularga man ko. pwde laptop. pero dli pman panahon na mupalit krun. huhuhuu…
bored?? hmhmmmmm nope! im not bored staying at home without any income. ahihihi…okay lng din. at least, i’ve seen my daughter growing age. I like to cook food for her and love to bond with her cousin at home I know that this would not last. I still need to work and for this time, I will just have to let my days passed and be a good mother always.
Thanks God Nicole gain weight and I know that she is in a right path always…because mother’s knows best as always.
Beautiful Girl April 23, 2008
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For 3 weeks, I have been enjoying my day having the unlimited rest in our house. Just resigned in my work and so far I am still adjusting with my daily routine. Despite of being a mother of Nicole, 2 Year old daughter, I still manage my life and try to look as Beautiful as always. I am very lucky to have this looks ( hahahhahah…feeling pretty anyways), but of course, in order for you to look good you have to feel pretty and sexy in any ways because beauty begins inside and out!
So for those young people out there, if you have the looks and guts try to join the “Look of the Year” Contest. It is your chance to expose and believe in yourself what God has given to you. Not everyone has the chance to join and it only depends on the individual. So, if you’re still Young, be the one that every one wants in life. Join and express yourself! Be a Model.
Now, get a mirror and see for yourself. And say yes to Beauty Contest, it is our way to show and to appreciate by someone.
My Simple life March 27, 2008
Posted by grincuddle in : Life , add a commentLately, I’ve been experiencing back pain…I already treat myself for massage but still suffering for the ache. I guess I have to change my lifestyle. By the way, My routine are waking up at 7:30am then eat breakfast and of course go to office almost everyday except for Sunday where in I can stay at home after going to church. Well, it is a sort of bored routine but I am just happy whenever my husband calls me for 30 minutes to one hour once every week. I always believe that happiness depends on the way you handle yourself. And I know that having this wonderful life like the way I used to have is not just an ordinary feeling, it is not as easy as staying away from your love one but I make my day everyday happy and not considering as suffering. Sometimes I treat myself and bought some nice stuff like blouses, bags, pants or any girl thing. Few of my friends are having a difficult life when it comes to finance situation, but me? of course I still do have money problems but I treat it as an easy trials, as long as God is with us together with the credit card. ahihi…every thing goes well.
That is for today. Stay cool and keep communicating with God. Aja!
Web Life Design March 24, 2008
Posted by grincuddle in : Life , add a commentWay back 1998, when I graduated my course (Bachelor of Science in Computer Science) I have been always attached to computer since then, I think in every where I always think of a new system. I guess this was the effect of my so called “Track & Trace” thesis software. For four years of studying my course and with flying colors grades, I keep on observing my environment and imagining what to contribute for us to developed and progress too. Now that I’ve been working for almost ten years and still striving hard for good, I was totally alarm that life is not just as easy, it is not depend only on the knowledge that you have been trying to achieve but also it connects on how you deal with the people surrounds you.
Sometimes, you will find yourself success where your hearts wanted to go. If you are happy in selling then go with it. My life is complete whenever my I see my family happy and contented, well I know there is no such thing as contentment. But for me as long as their is God, all is well and I know that everything will be fine.
All my life I ‘ve been working too hard, paper works, computer and of course web hosting. How I love making a unique design and seeing that your design was appreciated by someone you didn’t know, that is amazingly feeling awesome. hahahha. yes, but it is indeed true. So if you find happy doing something you want then focus it, in due time you will feel honored of what you do because if you love your work, success will follow.
Keep believing and surely everything will be well.
