Choosing to be faithful is a decision. You may not always feel like it. It takes a lot of self-control in not being punitive, sensitivity to the feelings of others, empathy, good impulse control, and the willingness and skills to effectively ask, and even demand that your intimate partner fulfill your needs.

Good communication, negotiation, problem solving and conflict resolution skills are important in this process, as well as a lot of patience, which is needed in order to hang in there. It is definitely not easy. It is easier for many people find someone else.

Infidelity may start as an accident, a curiosity, or as a punishment. There is an addictive quality to it, which makes it progressively harder to stop.

Once it is discovered, infidelity hits with tremendous force. It decimates your partner’s self esteem, ruptures trust, threatens the kids, destabilizes the relationship and throws the future into question. It is like a death. It is the death of the relationship’s innocence, for it will be a long time before the two of you trust each other again.
Once it is admitted or discovered, infidelity generates tremendously powerful emotions in the betrayed partner. Emotions will likely include anger, rage, the desire for revenge, and sometimes homicidal and suicidal feelings. Nothing seems to wound more than being jilted for someone else.

The betrayed person frequently obsesses about what happened, unable to get haunting images and thoughts out of their head. They are likely to question their attractiveness and desirability. Their feeling of betrayal may be so strong that it never goes away. They are likely to feel bitterly resentful, and may plunge into deep
depression.

The betrayed partner my go so far as to have a revenge affair, in essence declaring that what’s good for the goose is good for the gander. There is seldom joy in a revenge affair, for it is not about sex or fun. It is about wounded pride, and wanting to hit their partner where it hurts.

pending……..extend……delay……..stop…..anchorage…..loading…..hay na lang. mao ni ang dialogue skong bana na makasuya usahay.

atat na atat ko na makauli sya. pero cge lng delay. lagotttttttttttttttttttttttttttt….grrrrrrrrrrrrr…hehehehe…

saba pjud kau dri oi. mupalit nlng kaya kog computer? pero unsaun mna nko na mularga man ko. pwde laptop. pero dli pman panahon na mupalit krun. huhuhuu…

bored?? hmhmmmmm nope! im not bored staying at home without any income. ahihihi…okay lng din. at least, i’ve seen my daughter growing age. I like to cook food for her and love to bond with her cousin at home I know that this would not last. I still need to work and for this time, I will just have to let my days passed and be a good mother always.

Thanks God Nicole gain weight and I know that she is in a right path always…because mother’s knows best as always.

For 3 weeks, I have been enjoying my day having the unlimited rest in our house. Just resigned in my work and so far I am still adjusting with my daily routine. Despite of being a mother of Nicole, 2 Year old daughter, I still manage my life and try to look as Beautiful as always. I am very lucky to have this looks ( hahahhahah…feeling pretty anyways), but of course, in order for you to look good you have to feel pretty and sexy in any ways because beauty begins inside and out!

So for those young people out there, if you have the looks and guts try to join the “Look of the Year” Contest. It is your chance to expose and believe in yourself what God has given to you. Not everyone has the chance to join and it only depends on the individual. So, if you’re still Young, be the one that every one wants in life. Join and express yourself! Be a Model.

Now, get a mirror and see for yourself. And say yes to Beauty Contest, it is our way to show and to appreciate by someone.

Lately, I’ve been experiencing back pain…I already treat myself for massage but still suffering for the ache. I guess I have to change my lifestyle. By the way, My routine are waking up at 7:30am then eat breakfast and of course go to office almost everyday except for Sunday where in I can stay at home after going to church. Well, it is a sort of bored routine but I am just happy whenever my husband calls me for 30 minutes to one hour once every week. I always believe that happiness depends on the way you handle yourself. And I know that having this wonderful life like the way I used to have is not just an ordinary feeling, it is not as easy as staying away from your love one but I make my day everyday happy and not considering as suffering. Sometimes I treat myself and bought some nice stuff like blouses, bags, pants or any girl thing. Few of my friends are having a difficult life when it comes to finance situation, but me? of course I still do have money problems but I treat it as an easy trials, as long as God is with us together with the credit card. ahihi…every thing goes well.

That is for today. Stay cool and keep communicating with God. Aja!

Way back 1998, when I graduated my course (Bachelor of Science in Computer Science) I have been always attached to computer since then, I think in every where I always think of a new system. I guess this was the effect of my so called “Track & Trace” thesis software. For four years of studying my course and with flying colors grades, I keep on observing my environment and imagining what to contribute for us to developed and progress too. Now that I’ve been working for almost ten years and still striving hard for good, I was totally alarm that life is not just as easy, it is not depend only on the knowledge that you have been trying to achieve but also it connects on how you deal with the people surrounds you.

Sometimes, you will find yourself success where your hearts wanted to go. If you are happy in selling then go with it. My life is complete whenever my I see my family happy and contented, well I know there is no such thing as contentment. But for me as long as their is God, all is well and I know that everything will be fine.

All my life I ‘ve been working too hard, paper works, computer and of course web hosting. How I love making a unique design and seeing that your design was appreciated by someone you didn’t know, that is amazingly feeling awesome. hahahha. yes, but it is indeed true. So if you find happy doing something you want then focus it, in due time you will feel honored of what you do because if you love your work, success will follow.

Keep believing and surely everything will be well.

In everywhere people loves to takes pictures especially it it is a new place for them. Nowadays, most people have its own digital camera for their own used. Yup it is useful anyways! I am more hooked to camera since I began to discover the high technology that why most people love to smile and take pictures with Digicam.

Before deciding to buy a new one camera, first you have to answer all the question listed below. It is better indeed to be sure that to buy then regret.

» How many megapixels should my camera have?
» How much should I expect to pay for an HP digital camera?
» How much memory do I need?
» What’s the difference between optical and digital zoom? What’s total zoom?
» What other features should I look for in an HP digital camera?
» What is image stabilization, and is it important?
» What are shooting modes?
» Which HP digital cameras capture video, and can I make prints from video?
» What accessories do I need for my digital camera?
» Does it matter what type of battery the camera uses?
» What software comes with my camera?
» How do I get prints from a digital camera?

Then if you can answer all the question that I have given then I guess the next thing you will do is to find the best digital camera.

Smile!

“I want to be a hero!”

My best ever quote when I were on my elementary age, I think that was 20 years ago. ahihihi.. Children before are more active playing games in the garage or in the park. but now a days, most people even on their younger age, are mostly influenced to their Dads playing games online. Like online casino slots that most of my friends are enjoying their time playing connected to the world. Well, I can’t blame them, because that game really catch the interest of each individual. There is no problem with that, as long we do our responsibility as a parent.

The reason of this why most people wanted to experience playing online casino slots because they are curious enough to know how much would be the possible to win. Normally, whenever beginners won the chances are they will just drop the money that cost them to win then they’re encourage again to play repeatedly.

It is normal for us to aim for success and that is winning is all about.

“I did my best” – a much known quote for those player who has been experienced losing their game.

Well, this is normal. It is quite ordinary when you are a constant player. It is not bad as that. Playing online casino is quite known world wide. When you are on a midst of playing such game, you will simply find yourself spoil your time being connected and the more time you will spend the easy to earn a lot of money. Beginners always ask their self where they get that money. Before planning to engage on that game, first you have to understand what online casino is all about. To fully understand the game, you have to experience playing while connected. And you must understand it in order for yourself to have a chance of winning. It is normal to make mistakes but you have to understand and learn every trials you’ve encounter. It is not easy to accept the money that you are wasting.

Yep! Yesterday, I’m thinking of posting some important issues that is relevant to our daily health. I am very particular on health subject. I guess we do have to spend more time in taking good care of our health. For me it matters most!

Enjoy life and live to the fullest. Yes, we do find our self for happiness but we should also set our time in losing our fats and eliminates the toxins. I have read from a known magazine that sleeping early from 9-11pm and waking up early from 5:00-6:30am will somehow has a positive impact on our health. By that time duration should be spend by relaxing or listening to music at home, because this is the time for eliminating unnecessary/ toxic chemicals from the antibody system. Our body has also the schedule wherein our body detoxifies and it also depends on our life style. Please consider below schedule on how to maintain our health:

• 11pm – 1am: detoxification process in the liver, and ideally should be done in a deep sleep state.
• 1-3am: detoxification process in the gall, also ideally done in a deep sleep state.
• 3-5am: detoxification in the lungs, no need to take cough medicine so as not to interfere with toxin removal process
• 5-7am: detoxification in the colon, you should empty your bowel. (Tips: It is good to eat green leafy vegetable in the evening “dinner time”.)
• 7-9am: Absorption of nutrients in the small intestine, you should be having breakfast at this time. Breakfast should be earlier, before 6:30am and is also beneficial to those wanting to stay fit.

So, you guys if you want to stay fit and healthy you should sleep early and wake up early too. It is good for you to know that in the midnight to 4:00am is the time when the bone marrow produces blood. Therefore, have a good sleep and don’t sleep late!

A healthy reminder! ?

This is my daughter, we had fun taking pictures with my phone and I also forwarded this to her nanny.

Okay, this is Brenda, - my daughters’ favorite nanny. hay na lang! love talaga to ng anak ko. And sometimes she called it mama instead of “Ate”, I guess nicole confused out of the love that Brenda shown to her. well, its fine with me. At least I know that even without my presence Brenda loves my daughter and she took good care despite of my hectic schedule.